Gay Test: Am I Gay? Quiz

1. When you imagine your ideal romantic partner, what gender do you typically picture?

Almost always the same gender as me Mostly the same gender, but occasionally other genders About equally both genders Mostly other genders, but occasionally the same Almost always other genders than mine

2. Have you ever had romantic feelings for someone of the same gender?

Yes, many times Yes, a few times Maybe once or twice Not that I can recall Never

3. How do you feel about the idea of kissing someone of the same gender?

Very appealing Somewhat appealing Neutral Somewhat unappealing Very unappealing

4. What best describes your sexual fantasies?

Almost always involve same gender Mostly same gender, sometimes other Mixed about equally Mostly other gender, sometimes same Almost always other gender

5. Have you ever had a crush on a same-gender friend?

Yes, multiple times Yes, once or twice Maybe, but I'm not sure Probably not Never

6. When you see an attractive person of your same gender, how do you typically feel?

Strong physical attraction Some physical attraction Can appreciate their looks without attraction Little to no reaction Discomfort or aversion

7. Do you feel you can form deep emotional connections with people of your same gender?

Easier than with other genders About the same as with other genders Possible but less common Rarely Never

8. How do you react to romantic scenes between same-gender couples in movies/TV?

Strong positive reaction Somewhat positive Neutral Somewhat uncomfortable Very uncomfortable

9. Have you ever dreamed about being romantic with someone of the same gender?

Yes, multiple times Yes, once or twice Maybe, but unclear Probably not Never

10. Have you ever thought about coming out as LGBTQ+?

Yes, I have or plan to I've seriously considered it Maybe, but not sure Briefly thought about it Never

11. How connected do you feel to the LGBTQ+ community?

Very connected Somewhat connected Neutral Not very connected Not at all connected

12. Have you ever been in a romantic relationship with someone of the same gender?

Yes, multiple times Yes, once Came close but didn't happen Never, but curious Never and not interested

13. When you imagine your future, what gender is your life partner?

Almost certainly same gender More likely same gender Could be either More likely other gender Almost certainly other gender

14. How many of your close friends are LGBTQ+?

Most or all About half A few One or two None

15. Do you experience physical reactions (butterflies, nervousness) around attractive same-gender people?

Frequently Sometimes Rarely Almost never Never

16. Have you ever made romantic gestures toward someone of the same gender?

Yes, multiple times Yes, once or twice Thought about it but didn't Never considered it Never and wouldn't

17. If you used dating apps, which genders would you consider matching with?

Only same gender Mostly same gender Both genders equally Mostly other gender Only other gender

18. Do you have celebrity crushes on people of your same gender?

Many A few One or two Maybe one None

19. How comfortable are you with the idea of identifying as LGBTQ+?

Very comfortable, I do identify that way Somewhat comfortable Neutral/unsure Somewhat uncomfortable Very uncomfortable

20. How would you describe your sexual orientation?

Definitely gay/lesbian Probably gay/lesbian Bisexual/pansexual/fluid Probably straight Definitely straight

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